Kicking off Summer with our Cousins in Charleston!

For the past three years we have come home to the beautiful beaches and open arms of our family in Charleston, SC. This is a huge highlight for my crew. They are very tight with the Desciak boys and love having such awesome “Big” brothers to hang with… Jared, my sisters third oldest has the best personality and really gets kids. I hope to one day see him do something special with children because he has a true gift.

When gone missing, you can always find Jordan near the hoop… Uncle Dez will often run clinics/drills with Logan and Jordan.

Garrett gets a great deal of his fashion sense from the Desciak boys.. and their amazing style inherited from their mother. I can’t thank Logan enough for all of the hand me downs!

JOOOOEY BAG OF DONUTS!!!!! A must stop for their delicious donuts!

There isn’t any time of the day that we don’t look out the back window and find someone diving off the side of the pool….

Even Pop Pop got into the fun!!!

There is one place however that we truly feel the most alive… well other then the White Mountain Range ~ and that is the beach. The beaches in Charleston are stunningly beautiful and with the tide pools, waves and flat sand there is so much you can find to do there. It takes a lot to get us off the beach…

While our families are very very tight, there is one special bond that is thick as thieves… Jordan (my oldest) and Logan (my sisters youngest) have always been very tight. They both share the passion of athletics and are truly great pals.

Ayden takes her sand castle building very seriously… Out of our entire family, she is typically the last one off the beach.

And Garrett is the last one out of the water… I have had to buy him neon colored bathing suits so I can keep an eye on him.

We typically spend five weeks in Charleston and fuel up and head back to Shanghai, but this year we are moving up the coast to MA. The kids are eager to compare the beaches and see where they will get their sand/wave fix each summer.

Each visit, Uncle Dez sets traps and we get some great crabs for dinner… I had not fully believed he caught them if I didn’t send the kids with him this time around to get them out of the net. Garrett absolutely loves going anywhere with his Uncle… One of his all time favorite high lights was the morning spent driving with him and delivering meals on wheels.

There isn’t much this kid doesn’t like… Crabs were a huge hit!!!

It wasn’t so hard saying good bye this time… we know we once again living in the same country. Until next time Desciaks! Thanks for a GREAT week!!!

Some of the hardest goodbyes... some not so hard for others.

Saying good bye is never easy… well for some. While the kids had a different bus monitor each year, I am pretty sure we left our mark on each one. I asked friends of mine if there was a big turn over of bus drivers on their bus. Most buses had a lot of consistency. I am pretty sure bus # 70 had the most turn over since the Carey’s arrived in Shanghai. It is a good thing that the Ayi on the bus doesn’t speak any english and I couldn’t communicate to her very much in Chinese. I felt hopeful when she was willing to pose with the kids on the last day of school. She looked happy huh! A little too happy to say good bye. Ya think!!!

Mr. Zhu was one of the first people I met when I moved to China. Most people know him as our driver… but for us he was so much more. I remember meeting him and not caring about his driving record, rather my biggest concern was if he smoked. He was also, my shopping assistant often helping me bargain for things, he was our map… learning very quickly my stomping grounds and never once showing emotions that yes, we were heading to the gym AGAIN. He was my water stop, parking in strategic places to be near where I could score a water on my run. He was my SOS, when I was over served at “Ponyo” S11, 290, N59. (My friends names in Chinese were was Ponyo… which means friends in Chinese and then their house numbers.) He knew my kids schedule better then me, often reminding me that baseball was tonight when I was trying to tell him it was ok for him to go home for the night or asking if he had to drive Garrett to swimming. (all in Chinese/Kristenese) He was body guard, when I would get frustrated with various Chinaisms… I remember someone honking at us when I was loading our car up with groceries… the honking gets old fast. I started to walk over to the car/driver and he guided me right back into the van. He would laugh when I would get out in traffic in the middle of the road and run the two blocks… even when I wasn’t short on time or when Chris and I decided we absolutely needed two cement elephants that neither of us could lift by ourselves. I knew he thought we were crazy, but he liked it. I wish he could know how much he impacted my life in China. I couldn’t wait to see him bouncing on his toes waving when we arrived after being gone all summer. While he had all that time off, he seemed happy to have us home. Without him,

our family would have been lost.

When we decided to transfer/move to China, I came with Chris in April of that year on a look-see. I know this because there are pictures of me in China… if there weren’t any pictures, I never would have believed I was here looking at houses and apartments. I think I slept through it all with such jet lag. No decisions were made and we ended up deciding on our housing last minute online… we did not even see the apartment. After living the first year with white walls… and rental furniture…

We made our apartment our home… we loved our digs!

As odd as this is… shopping was unusual in China. There were few places for immediate gratification in shopping. Walk in … purchase and wear. Until I met Julia. She spoke GREAT English and makes the most beautiful creations with beads. Most of what you see me wear today is from her booth in the Underground. She was fair and kind…. she made me the most beautiful necklace as my going away gift and I have never been so touched…

It is hard to believe that over three years ago we landed in the Pudong airport … like this… and left with a greater meaning..

As one of my best Friends in China said, “Don’t be sad that it’s over, be glad that it happened” We were all touched in different ways from our experiences while living there and it brought us even closer together as a family. Plunging through the new culture… embracing some aspects and struggling with others They made us stronger, more confident and in the end closer together. While its great to be back in the States… with the clean air, comforts of home and conveniences… we will miss our adventures of China. Most of all though, we will miss the great life long friends we made along way. Without them we never could have stayed.

Winding Down our China Adventure with Last concerts, Last Shopping... and first fender bender!

Fantastic end of the year concert… and culmination of the alto sax. Love that Shanghai American School opens the doors for their students to try new things. While the dancing was a big hit for Jordan, sadly and thankfully the saxaphone was not…

Shopping was abundant in China… Not your typical walk into Target knowing what you want and walking out of there five minutes later. Shopping in China meant you go in with an “idea” and you come out with something close. None the less, shopping in the underground market was one of our favorite weekend past times. Where everything is cheap… in every way… and shopping provides you with a hard lesson in negotiating.

A few afternoons Chris and I ventured out to find some keep sakes for our house in the states. You have to do a little digging on Antique street, but I am pretty convinced we found the heaviest possible pieces we could find… a PAIR of cement elephants! …and we couldn’t leave China without THE General (our Xian warrior) — We drove home proudly with our purchases and the back end of the van dragging.

I always loved shopping on this street because the children were always out running around.

The stories they could tell…

Driving in China… well this is a blog entry in itself. We had a lot of friends that worked for GM there that did dare to endure the ridiculous written drivers test. Challenging every bit of your common sense when answering each question. When helping my good friend study for her written test, I remember going over one particular question…

If your car becomes submerged in a river do you…

A. Roll down the window

B.        Hold your breath after calling for help

C.        Put a bag over your head

The correct answer was C

There was also a question about hitting a farm animal… and whether or not you first priority was to resuscitate it…

Having said that… there wasn’t a time we got in the car and didn’t close our eyes to many close calls. Right hand turn HAS the right away, even if the oncoming traffic is driving 100 mph in your lane. So we were surprised that we had made it through three years of living in China and having the same driver without even one fender bender… until our last week. The funny part about fender benders in China, is that the cars stop exactly where they are… no pulling off to the side to let traffic move on… This draws considerable attention. Other cars will pull over, scooters stop to watch and they all stand around either arguing loudly or just putting in their two cents. This is a huge social event. Our driver, Mr Zhu NEVER got mad. So arguing was unlikely. I often wondered if he was friends with absolutely everyone in JinQiao. He would talk to everyone as if he had just had them over for dinner. I will miss this man..